“But why Mr. Darcy came so often to the parsonage it was more difficult to understand. It could not be for society, as he frequently sat there ten minutes together without opening his lips; and when he did speak, it seems the effect of necessity rather than of choice – a sacrifice to propriety, not a pleasure to himself” (154).
The once too haughty Mr. Darcy has been reduced to speaking to Elizabeth out of necessity. Similar to an awkward middle school boy seeking the attention of a girl, Mr. Darcy is speaking to Elizabeth just to speak to her without any reason. This could be an indication of him starting to fall in love with her. He is afraid to because of her low ranking in society and also that she is not into him. Elizabeth is seeking felicity. Darcy’s greatest attribute is his wealth so in order to get Elizabeth to marry him with alacrity he would need to get her to fall in love with him. This is problematic because of a very poor first impression he made when he refused to dance. Elizabeth clearly has not forgotten this because she brings it up earlier in the novel.